Do you Want Your Church?

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Do you Want Your Church?

Good morning Father, Son and Spirit,

I give you my day, in every way,

Whether at work or play,

 All I will do or say,

Lead and direct I pray.

“whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of all. For even the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” 9Mark 10:43-46)

I work one day a week, Monday nights 2-10 at Lowes. Last night I was helping a couple purchase items and answering questions they had with a bathroom remodel. In our conversation, somehow the conversation turned to the couples faith. :) ! The couple said they moved to Madison 4 years ago. They had visited over a dozen churches and they still have not found one that they liked or fitted them. In there explanation of churches they attended they listed: The way they were welcomed/greeted, church’s amenities, worship band, pastor, programs offered,. follow up invitations to return...ect. There remarks were all about what the “church” had to offer them.

I graduated from Asbury Theological Seminary in 2012 and church planting was the focus of my Master of Divinity.  I saw a blog from someone who went to my seminary in the seventies.  He stated, I don’t recall the language of church growth and church planting figuring prominently, if at all, in the conversations we had, and we certainly weren’t talking about “the decline of the mainline church” or “the end of the Protestant Reformation.” My classmates were a conscientious group and, in truth, I suppose we worried more about doing a good and faithful job than about the longevity of our congregations.

That isn’t the case any longer. Most congregations, regardless of their size all seem to be and need to be asking themselves questions about the future. But one of the most important questions to ask is, “Do you want your church?”

The answer to that question will probably depend upon what you think “your church” is.

For far too many, like the couple I talked to at Lowes, the answer is often that it is a place that my needs, and the needs of our family are met. It’s not uncommon for people to say that they have chosen a church because it had a program for their children or that the church had an outstanding worship service, that the time of the services fit with their lives, or that they liked the preaching. To put it bluntly, some people treat the church as an end-user of a product and, to be fair, most in the church often “advertise” their church in conversations with friends and to perspective new members as if that’s exactly what it is and that is the reason they need to attend.

But a better way of defining “church,” apart from the all important definition of it as “the body of Christ,” is to ask ourselves, “Where can I be equipped and made available for the work of Christ in the world?” Not what it has to offer me on Sunday mornings, but enables me to serve Monday-Saturday. Because, in the final analysis, it’s not all about us, about meeting our needs, or about meeting the needs of our families; The church is a living extension of the incarnation and is meant to be a living, breathing embodiment of Christ’s love in the world that draws and embraces a broken world, sharing the Gospel and serving (The son of man did not come to be served, but to serve..)

As an end user of “church”, the answer to the question, “Do you want your church?”  is always conditional and it can be answered by asking the question, “What is it doing for me now?” Or your answer may change in a conversation as a friend “advertises” what a new or another church has to offer you that sounds like it can better meet your needs.  For the Christians who have sought out a community were the focus is being a sacrificing, serving, living, breathing embodiment of Christ’s love in the world, the answer is never conditional, but always “yes.”

My friends, I pray today in the Holy Spirit you will seek to answer the question, “Do you want your church?”  That’s not a question I, your priest, pastor, minister, spouse or parents can answer for you. However, the future of your church depends upon it.  The embodiment of Christ’s church into the world depends on it.  Please pray the same for me.  God bless you my friends!

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One Direction Community

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Go to "Church"

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Go to "Church"

“and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the farthest parts of the earth.”” (Acts 1:8)

One of the reasons ODC left Sunday mornings open was so we could spend time out in our community with those who do not attend church. Yesterday morning left my house and prayed God would lead me to people needing to hear the Gospel. Went by the Publix grocery store where I pick up the unsold baked goods, loaded them in my truck and headed out. I drove down to the Waffle House by Jordan Lane and spent 30 minutes there. I sat at the counter and started a conversation with a waitress. In our conversation she told me 2 weeks ago she lost her 2 month old daughter to S.I.D.S. She found he'd dead in her crib.She was broken. I got to spend time ministering and praying with her.

I went then to the WH on University by the boardwalk for 30 minutes. In another conversation with a waitress she told me she had a 3 month old daughter she wanted to be baptized. We talked and prayed over it and are going to do it next month.

I then went to the WH by Hughes for 30 minutes. Walking in the door I was approached by a regular customer who told me that another regular customer we are both friends with had passed away. We talked about it and thence prayer over the mans’s family who we also know. I then sat at counter between 2 men that did not know each other. After introducing myself to both of them, we discovered that all three of us who randomly sat there were from Cleveland and Browns fans, God is good! We had a great conversation about life and I invited them to our Thursday night mens group, Boithers, Bibles, and Beer. At all three Waffle Houses, I handed out bread and baked goods to the waitresses and cooks who worked at them.

Yesterday morning I attended amazing 1 1/2 hour of "church" services, at 3 different campuses. It did not look anything like what you picture “church”, but it felt more like than ever.

My family, I pray this week you plan to pray to God to lead you to those who need to hear the Gospel and then go to “church” at a couple different campuses in your community, in Jesus’ name. Please pray the same for me. God bless you my friends!

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Gary Liederbach- Lead Follower

One Direction Community

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"Let It Rain!"

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"Let It Rain!"

Good morning, Lord Jesus. Help me begin my day focused on You -- embraced by the Father, centered in Christ, filled with the Holy Spirit.  

"Ask the Lord for rain in the time of the latter rain. The Lord will make flashing clouds; He will give them showers of rain, grass in the field of everyone" (Zechariah 10:1 ).

Yes, Lord. Let it rain! Let showers of rain come down -- everywhere we are weary and dry, thirsting for more, yearning for You. Let there be an outpouring of Your Presence -- here in my heart and here in our land! 

"O God, You are my God; early will I seek You; my flesh longs for You in a dry and thirsty land where there is no water. So I have looked for You in the sanctuary, to see Your power and Your glory! Because Your loving kindness is better than life, my lips shall praise You! Thus I will bless You while I live; I will lift up my hands in Your name. My soul shall be satisfied as with marrow and fatness, and my mouth shall praise You with joyful lips!" (Psalm 63:1-5 )

You're awakening a fresh hunger in my soul, a fresh thirst in my spirit.  It's a fresh hunger and thirst that won't be contained or restrained, that won't be silenced or shut away or hidden out of sight. And it won't ever be fully satisfied because You are making me hungrier and thirstier still. In the mystery of my passionate pursuit for Your Presence, the more You let it rain, the dryer I become. And the dryer I become, the more my heart cries out, "Let it rain!" In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

My family, I pray you keep growing hungrier and thirstier in your passionate pursuit for the Presence of the Lord. I pray you cry out to Him this morning in your heart, "Let it rain!", in Jesus' name! Please pray the same for me. God bless you, my friends!

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Gary Liederbach- Lead Follower

One Direction Community

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Mutant Bears and Killer Bees

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Mutant Bears and Killer Bees

Good morning,

With the election coming up and talk or politics, policies and our nations finances, my post today is flowing out of a conversation I had yesterday at the Waffle House low bar on which candidate for president and their policies would be more detrimental to the church.  My reply focussed as much on the direction of status of the church and what the changes of impact the political policies I see on the horizon will have on the church.

Imagine you are a character in a Sci-Fi film on some strange magical planet and you are captured for the entertainment of the gods who inhabit the planet. You will fight like a gladiator against a wild beast. You may choose your weapon:: a machine gun or a bazooka. You can also choose your foe: An angry mutant grizzly bear twice the normal size of a bear or an ordinary swarm of agitated killer bees. What choices do you make?

Even though the fierce bear may be terrifying in appearance and a single bee may seem small and insignificant, a swarm of bees is something you cannot stop with such weapons. The choice should be an easy one.

I do not think persecution is so far off. What would it take for culture to shift? Not much. I believe the pieces are already on the board and being pushed into play. Truthfully, however, I think most churches can be taken out before any persecution ever occurs.

 The large churches in the West are far more vulnerable than most care to admit. With the rapid rise of the mega church we have been watching the church become more centralized, more expensive, more personality-driven and consumer-oriented. In fact with the closure of so many smaller churches and their people being assimilated into the larger ones, we have actually concentrated all our people, resources and ideas into a few large targets(mutant bears) rather than many smaller autonomous ones (killer bees). We have also seen that the church is more dependent upon a single charismatic leader. Take him/her out (or compromise this person) and the whole church suffers greatly. We are regularly seeing some of these large “successful” churches struggle after the departure of their dynamic leader. It’s becoming a weekly occurrence.

At the Waffle House low bar for discussion I mapped out a few feasible steps that would permanently alter church as we have known it. In fact, it wouldn’t take persecution to close many churches down or cause them to struggle, just a few legal changes that are already being considered by senators and congressmen.

If the following benefits were revoked many churches would be seriously negatively affected: the tax deduction for contributions, property tax exemptions and the parsonage allowance. I say this because the way we do church today is so expensive that we rely upon these special privileges to survive. This is especially true in a struggling economy where our government is looking for ways to reduce its deficit and increase tax revenue to provide more services for its constituents––services, by the way, that churches no longer supply to the community.

I suggest that that you ask yourself how your church would survive if these three tax benefits were revoked. Crunch the numbers. Do the math. It will be scary but may lead to some good sound steps to be better prepared.

Removing the Parsonage Allowance

Few ordinary citizens know about this special perk that pastors get. I have enjoyed this benefit and to be honest, I don’t even know why it is afforded to me. All money spent on housing (rent/mortgage, utilities, furniture, home improvements/repairs/upkeep/supplies) can be taken off the salary of a paid church leader even up to the entire amount they are paid in salary. I actually feel like I am betraying our “special club” for even speaking of it publicly…like I might jinx it. Add to that the fact that church leaders are able to opt out of social security and you can easily see how pastors are able to get by on much less than the rest. If you don’t think churches rely upon this your head is in the sand.

A pastoral staff can literally double with this benefit allowing a church to maintain a professional staff twice the size that it can actually afford. There are not many churches in the West that feel like they have more staff than they need. Most churches have far more ministry than they have leaders. The more a church relies upon professional staff the more vulnerable it is.

Removing Property Tax Exemption

What would happen if our churches were forced to pay taxes on their property? This would push many churches over the edge of viability, at least in their current form––especially if the other perks mentioned above were also removed.

Most cities are already openly hostile to churches and trying to prevent them from acquiring property because there is no income from these organizations. I cannot imagine that the city of Houston isn’t glaring at Lakewood Church’s $32 million/yr income and wondering what the property taxes should be. This is how the world sees our special perks. I live off of Hughes Road in Madison. Hughes Road is a prime street running through the middle of Madison. Hughes Road is also the “Large church” street. Located on Hughes Road are the largest churches of almost all denominations and Non-denomination churches in Madison: Methodist, Episcopal, Roman Catholic, Church of Christ, Baptist, and several various large non-denomination churches are located along this major road. When a person with a government eye drives the miles down this road with all these huge churches on prime property they realize, not one penny of property or sales taxes is going to the city on this road. Most city officials see the local Denny’s as more beneficial to the community than the local church. Why? Because the restaurant provides meals, jobs, sales and property taxes. The local church usually provides none of those things. No wonder there is an unapologetic hostility toward churches looking to purchase property increasing in neighborhoods across the US.

Removing Tax Deductions for Contributions

If people could no longer write off their contributions to churches I am sure that many churches would see their annual income drop severely. I would like to think it isn’t so, but why else is it that churches count on larger gifts at the end of the year? It’s because churches know people are looking for a tax benefit. Granted, this is likely the last perk to be removed because so many other non-profits benefit from this.

How Will the Church Respond?

We already have earned a reputation of being intolerant in our society. Evangelical and fundamental expressions of Christianity have consistently decried those who have what we call “special entitlements.” This will set us up for public mockery…something we should be used to by now. When these laws take our own entitlements away and we are found complaining louder than all others, our reputation as hypocrites will be confirmed in the eyes of the world and will only expedite passage of these laws.

 

It’s a simple scenario and as you can see it is not only possible, and there is movement in state and federal governments to already enact some of these plans. Are your churches getting ready?

 Like the Russian church prior to communism, our churches are dependent upon holy buildings (remove property tax exemption) and holy men (remove parsonage allowance) that perform holy practices in those buildings (remove tax deductible donations). Our vulnerability is quite obvious. These three areas of dependence of our current church structures would cause severe financial difficulties for churches if removed. We must decrease our dependence upon buildings, budgets and big shots. We must also respond to our society with love rather than with lobbying for self-interested legislature.

Churches and leaders need to be considering these possibilities and take steps to be prepared. I firmly believe that the more we move toward an incarnational, missional and movemental expression of ecclesia the better prepared we will be. We must be aware of our vulnerabilities and shift toward a form of church less dependent on government subsidies that are easily removed. We must adopt more of a swarm mentality to survive and thrive in the coming days. Then no weapon fashioned against us will be able to stop us.

Please post your comments and reflections below.

 Gary Liederbach- Lead Follower

One Direction Community

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"Think About The Circumstances of Your Call"

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"Think About The Circumstances of Your Call"

Father, Son and Spirit fill me afresh with your presence as I begin my day.

“Think about the circumstances of your call, brothers and sisters. Not many were wise by human standards, not many were powerful, not many were born to a privileged position. But God chose what the world thinks foolish to shame the wise, and God chose what the world thinks weak to shame the strong. God chose what is low and despised in the world, what is regarded as nothing, to set aside what is regarded as something, so that no one can boast in his presence. He is the reason you have a relationship with Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God, and righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.” (I Corinthians 1:26-31)

The other day i was down at my neighbors house. He has a son that is going into the first grade and has an amazing, wide-open, spirit. We were talking and he looked at me and said, “You know Mr. Gary, if instead of Jesus being the savior or the world, you were the savior, we would be calling you Lord Father Gary!” I burst out laughing thinking, Where did that come from?” And ny young neighbor, delighted he made me laugh joined in my laughter.

i walked away toward my house with a smile on my face thinking if the young boy only know who I was… But Jesus knows who I am. He knows who you are too. If you look throughout history when there was a situation, event, problem that God needed to call someone or something to intervene in on His behalf, who did He call?  He did not call the powerful kings and emperors.  He did not call in military generals with armies and chariots.  He did not use people with amazing renown and influence or celebrities.  Who did God call and use as His representatives? “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.: (Matthew 5:5). He called in the meek, the lowly, the common, the humble, the ones who say to themselves as they walk away, “If they only really knew who I am.”

God called Abraham and Sarah who were an old, elderly couple in their 90s to birth Him a nation.  He called in David, the runt of his family to be the greatest king.  He called a nobody teenage girl named Mary and simple trades man named Joseph through which Jesus, the Messiah would come to earth.  He called smelly fisherman and scum bag tax collectors to be His Son’s disciples. And the list goes on and on of the meek, the lowly, the common and humble God called in to advance His kingdom on earth.  And you and I are added to His list, as God called us as well.

Into all the pain, brokenness, evil, and poverty in the world today God has called you and me, all those common and lowly people that struggle to be loving, gracious and merciful, but who still call upon the name of Jesus as their Lord, to usher in His kingdom of love, grace and mercy.  It is not presidents, kings, armies, popes, gifted pastors, priests, and Christian leaders who can stop the advance of evil and hate, repair the brokenness, and bring hope and life into death and darkness. It is many small, simple, ordinary. humble people, in many small, ordinary cities and neighborhoods, doing many small and unnoticed acts of love and kindness that can usher in the Kingdom of God.  It is many small people, in many small places, doing many small things that can launch the unstoppable movement of God in this world.  The church was designed to be God’s unstable movement.

My family, I pray this morning and throughout your day you will take time to pray and meditate on Paul’s words to you “Think about the circumstances of your call, brothers and sisters.” (v.26).  You were called by God in the same powerful way as were the meek and humble, and unqualified saints before you that you read about in the Bible.  Pray over your simple yet powerful call by God and what small thing, in your small neighborhood you will join in or start up to be part of the movement of God. In Jesus’ name.  Please pray the same for me.  God bless you my friends!

 I would love for you to share your reflections and prayers with us on this blog in the comment box below.

 

Gary Liederbach- Lead Follower

One Direction Community

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"Determined Seekers"

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"Determined Seekers"


“Therefore, if you have been raised with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Keep thinking about things above, not things on the earth, for you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” (Colossians 3:1-4)

“But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” Matthew 6:6

I woke this morning in a spirit of prayer for revival. Revival is God's strategic way of working in the earth between the resurrection of Jesus and his coming again to keep us moving towards Him.  In Acts 2 and passages following is wave after wave of outpouring of the Spirit. In Joel 2 are massive outbursts of revival before the end of the age. In Romans 11 it speaks to the revival and the fullness of the Spirit to come in the nations that will be so powerful it will turn all to Jesus to accept Him as their Messiah

So if revival is the strategy of God leading to all nations accepting Jesus as their Messiah, why does he wait around for us to pray?  Only as you give yourself to prayer are you transformed in your heart to be a determined seeker of more of God.  And God will only trust a revival to determined seekers of more of Him. All those in the past who God has entrusted to revival are those who have dedicated themselves to long periods of prayer.  Early Methodist revivals came because of a gathering of people who expected to see God move among them.  Revival occurs out of Determined Seekers of more of God. Here is the thing though, you can't make yourself a Determined Seeker of more of God, you can only pray yourself into one. You have to give yourselves to something you do not see and can’t control. God doesn't want you to be confident in yourself, he wants you to be desperate for him and find your confidence in him.  This thing is, revival is not something that is a peripheral of our faith, but needs to be at the heart of what we are after.  Ask the Lord in prayer to give yourself over to this.

 What is the essence of true revival? It is an intense experience of the presence of God in and among the people. The peculiar and mighty sense of the presence of God which is manifested.

4 thing happen when a revival happens.

•  Restoration of love and devotion to the Lord Jesus Christ.  Re-falling in love. Song of Psalms

•  There is a restoration of Jesus' Lordship.  What does Jesus want me to do in my life and the life on His church.

•  Restoration of Holiness and zeal for God's glory.  How do you want to use me? Revivals always lead to a releasing of people into ministries.

•  Restoration of Boldness.

We were not designed to be carriers of Covid. We are designed to be carriers of God and to be carriers of God to others. If instead of taking a Covid test, if in your heart you honestly took a “Determined Seeker” test, would your test results be positive? And just like we can’t give someone the Covid virus if we ourselves an not contagious with it, we cannot give someone and spread God if we are not contagious with Him, if we ourselves are not carrying Him to others..  We do not have a problem with prayer, we have a complacency with prayer.  We can't get people to pray if they are not hungry for it.  When people and churches quit praying, then God withdraws from them, then they find themselves in trouble, then they cry out.

How do we provoke hunger if there is a lack of hunger to pray?  I wrestle with this, as much of it is out of my control.  First, you must teach on prayer. In prayer we are invited into the throne room of God, we are privileged to enter into kingdom making decisions. However, everyone at some time feels disappointed with prayer.  Each one of us has had a prayer that has not been answered.  Take this cup from me.  Lord let them be one.  We must minister to the disappointments in prayer as much as we celebrate the answer of prayer.  Second, we must de-clutter our programs and calendar if we want to prioritize prayer. We need to be seekers of more: more power of God, more revelation of the Spirit. Third, you need to set times for simple gatherings for prayer. Some people miss the sparks because they are always looking for the big flames. Driving to this big event or conference: IHOP, Passion, Catalyst, New Room..ect. or chasing after "gifted teachers and prophets."  These events and people are all good and holy, however they are not meant to be our focus or highlight, and they cannot be the source of revival for your church.  The source is Determined Seekers of more of God.  We are called to start a spark, to look for where the sparks of God are working among us, and then a pour gasoline on it.

Many people are leaving the church because they have not seen the power of God moving in the church. Yet God's desire at creation, in the Jesus death and resurrection, and the outpouring of the Holy Spirit's in dwelling, in us, was for the creation and existence of a church full of the presence and fire of the Holy Spirit.  A "supernatural church" that is unstoppable. Churches today are so easily "stoppable."  A talented leader leaves, a donor dies, a strategic plan fails, and now Covid, and church doors close or its ministries become ineffective.  In order for a church to be an unstoppable, supernatural church, it has to rely and be surrendered to our unstoppable and supernatural God.   There is only one way you become a supernatural church, and that is by spending hours doing what does not come natural to us, hours spent together on our knees in prayer.

My family, I pray today for something that I, your pastor, your spouse, your parents, nor anyone else really has any control over, that you re-commit to become a Determined Seeker of more of God. Here is the thing though, you can't make yourself a determined seeker of more of God, you can only pray yourself into one. So I take time today to pray that you will take time to pray today. I pray today you give yourselves to something you do not see and can’t control and become desperate for God through prayer, In Jesus’ name.  Please pray the same for me.  God bless you my friends!

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One Direction Community

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"Fools Gold"

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"Fools Gold"

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:19-21)

For the past two weeks my wife Nancy and I have been helping clean out  our neighbor’s house.  Our neighbor passed away a few months ago.  He had two sisters that both live out of town several states away.  When they went into their brothers house they discovered he was a hoarder..  To clean out his house in the beginning they literally had to use rakes and shovels.  I had to use my truck and trailer to haul away loads of large black garbage bags full of trash, magazines, expired food, and old, broken, and none-working items piled around the house.  And then we had to help clean, dust, sort through and separate all the thousands of dollars of items that will sold at his estate sale. We finished the house, however the garage which is packed with items also needs to be gone through next.

Nancy and I knew our neighbor.  He actually lived a street over and up the road a little ways.  However, we hand out invitations to over 400 homes around us in our in our neighborhood to our annual Neighborhood Halloween Gathering and  Easter Sunday service we hold in our front and back yard.  He was a nice elderly man, who would come to our gatherings with his little dog, sit around the fire pit in our yard, grill a hot dog and talk.   However we did not know of his hoarding. 

He lived alone, and in his isolation he turned to “stuff” to fill the whole in his life that family, friends, and human contact was designed to fill.  The stacks of Playboy Magazines we hauled off were a “fake” way he attempted to replace his desire for real intimacy, love and sharing his life with a wife.  He wanted happiness and connection, and spent thousands of dollars filling his home with “stuff” as a the source of both of these, but “stuff” is always only a temporary fix.

When I returned to my home after a day of cleaning his, the “plank in my own I”  prevented me from any kind of judgement.  As I looked around the “nice” items I have filled my house with for my happiness and comfort.  Items and resources that I “cherish”  that I think are necessary for my happiness and my kingdom, but in reality cannot bring me any true happiness or impact the advancement of Jesus’ Kingdom.  But in the end will be simply be dusted off and sold at an estate sale for pennies on the dollar.  Sometimes it takes attending a funeral to realize life is short and time is precious.  Attending a wedding to be reminded how blessed I am for my wife.  Sit with a person battling cancer to be truly grateful for my health.  Or clean out a house full of “stuff” of a hoarder to open my eyes to ways I am hoarding myself.  And remind myself that no matter how nice, expensive, a good deal I got it for it, or rare it is, that item in my house is just “stuff.”

My family,  I pray as you begin a new week you will reflect on, as I am, what your treasures are, what are you storing up, and begin to seek out the things that can truly bring happiness, in Jesus’ name.  Please pray the same for me.  God bless you my friends!

Please share with us your thoughts and reflections with us this morning in the comment box below.

Gary Liederbach- Lead Follower

One Direction Community

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We Are No Longer Children

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We Are No Longer Children

Good morning, Lord Jesus. Make me more like You today.  

"We must no longer be children, tossed to and fro and blown by every wind of doctrine, by people's trickery, by their craftiness in deceitful scheming. But speaking the truth in love, we must grow up in every way into Him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every ligament with which it is equipped, as each part is working properly, promotes the body's growth in building itself up in love" (Ephesians 4:14-16).

"No longer children ... we must grow up." Give me grace to grow up, Lord. From every place where I've been stuck in the development of my mind and will and emotions, help me grow up. From every place where I allow myself to be tossed to and fro by the winds of doctrine or the will of others trying to impose their will or their sense of truth or their plans for my life on me, help me grow up. From every place where my selfishness and my self-centeredness and my self-righteousness wants to rear its ugly head in pride rather than humility or insisting on my way rather than fully surrendering to Your way, help me grow up. From every place where I'm tempted to compromise with Your truth out of some sense of false compassion or settle for something far less than Your very best out of complacency, laziness, lukewarm-ness, apathy, or self-pity, help me grow up.

There's not a spiritual gift of spiritual maturity; it must be developed and deepened on the daily journey of faith. There's not an anointing or impartation of spiritual maturity your pastor can pray over you. And you can’t gain it by searching “Spiritual Maturity” online and reading a social media post on it. Spiritual maturity comes out of your personal decision to put in the time seeking God. Iit must grow from seed to harvest, through every season along the way - both the good and the bad, the easy and the difficult. But it does come to those who seek it, to those who seek You God, to those who embrace the call and command of Your Word that "we must grow up in every way into Him who is the head, into Christ" (Ephesians 4:15).  It does come to those who spend time daily searching the Scriptures. It does come to those who spend time daily in prayer. It does come to those who invest time weekly in deep accountability with one or two others.  It does come to those who serve and love their neighbors. It does come to those who are willing to step out of their safety and comfort and pick up their cross and follow You.

The Apostle Paul expressed his spiritual journey like this:  "When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became and adult, I put an end to childish ways" (1 Corinthians 13:11). He did that by growing in love (1 Corinthians 13:1-13). He did that by embracing and "speaking the truth in love" (Ephesians 4:15). And he grew in love and truth because he grew in grace -- the power of Your grace alone that can grow us up into all You've created us to be in You -- by grace, through faith (Ephesians 2:8).

Lord, help me "grow in grace" so I can grow in truth and love (2 Peter 3:18). I want to grow "to maturity, to the measure of the full stature of Christ" through every opportunity You set before me on my journey of faith through this world. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

My family, I pray you seek spiritual maturity and desire above all else to keep growing in grace, growing up into Christ, more like Jesus each day, into the spiritual maturity of the child of God and disciple of Christ you were created to be, in Jesus' name! Please pray the same for me.  And remember I am here for you to help encourage, equip, mentor, and walk with you to grow spiritually mature.  Please use me!   God bless you, my friends!  

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"First Place In Everything"

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"First Place In Everything"

Good morning, Lord Jesus. It's all about You. So I seek to begin my day and week centered in Your Word and filled with Your Spirit. ...

“For I am jealous for you with godly jealousy, because I promised you in marriage to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ. But I am afraid that just as the serpent deceived Eve by his treachery, your minds may be led astray from a sincere and pure devotion to Christ.” (2 Corinthians 13:2-3)

Jesus, I hear you ask me this morning, Do I "have first place in everything"? Do I seek You first? Do I put Your first? Do I live my life throughout the moments of my day with no other gods before me, with no idols in Your place, with no compromises in my "sincere and pure devotion to Christ"? 

Jesus, As I sense Your leading to honestly lay the question before You this morning, it seems I hear You speaking in my heart, "Honestly, no. You do not. Nor can you completely, sincerely, purely, and fully. No one can by themselves. Even in this, you need My grace. Especially in this, you need My power of My grace to be at work in your heart and your mind to seek Me and surrender to Me, to passionately pursue Me and allow Me to make your heart more pure and more wholly devoted to Me. But is it My great desire and delight to answer your prayer and move in your heart every time you turn to Me and invite Me to move in you. This is a life-long journey, with breakthroughs along the way. And I breakthrough more deeply as you surrender more deeply to Me."  ...

Yes, Lord. I want to love You and surrender to You and Your love for me with "an undivided heart," with "my whole heart" so "turn to me and be gracious to me" (Psalm 86:11-16). I want to "love the Lord (my) God with all (my) heart, and with all (my) soul, and with all (my) mind, and with all (my) strength" (Mark 12:30). I want to hold nothing back from You, wholly devoted to You, completely surrendered to You. I want You to be first, to "come to have first place in everything" in me -- all by the power of Your grace at work within me. 

You are "the Alpha and the Omega, the Frist and the Last, the Beginning and the End" (Revelation 22:12). You are my "All in All," as All in One -- Father, Son, and Holy Spirit of God (Ephesians 1:23; 1 Corinthians 15:28). So as best as I can and all by Your grace, I choose to keep turning my heart to You and inviting You to keep moving in me on this life-long journey of faith in You and Your love for me, with breakthroughs of deeper surrender all along the way. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

My familyI pray you keep turning your heart to Jesus and inviting Him to keep moving in you.  I pray you trust Hm more fully and surrender more deeply to Him as the One with first place in everything in you -- all by the power of His grace, in Jesus' name! Please pray the same for me. God bless you, my friends!

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He Get's Us!

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He Get's Us!

Good morning, Lord Jesus. Lead me in the ways that lead to life in You today -- Father, Son, and Holy Spirit of God. ...

"Since, then, we have a great High Priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast to our confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weakness, but we have One who in every respect has been tested as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore approach the throne of grace with boldness, so that we may receive mercy and find grace in time of need" (Hebrews 4:14-16).

In our weakness but also boldness, in our humility but also faith, we come to Your throne of grace in our time of need. You invite us to come boldly because You're able to sympathize with our weakness, because You have been tested in every respect as we are being tested now. Before You "passed through the heavens," You suffered through every testing of the trials and tribulations of our world we have ever faced and that we are facing now, "yet without sin."

You're a God who understands us. You're a God who is not distant or detached, not uncaring or unavailable. You're a God who is right here with us through it all and who has already been through it all -- through it all for us.

If we feel afraid of what might happen, You've been through it. If we are feel worried about what we're already experiencing, You've been through it. If we feel confused about what to do, You've been through it. Even if we feel frustrated or angry in a moment for what seems unfair or out of control or overwhelming, You've been through it. "Yet without sin" -- as You suffered well, persevered well, lived out Your identity and calling in the midst of all that was wrong in a broken, fallen world well, You went through it all in human flesh and blood to model well an example for us (Philippians 2:5-11).

Lord God -- Father, Son, and Holy Spirit -- this is our time of need. We come to You in our weakness and neediness; we come to You on behalf of our neighbors and their weakness and neediness. These problems we face are over our heads. So we come humbly and boldly to Your throne of grace in our time of need, just like You invited us to do. As You have promised:  "My grace is sufficient for you; for My strength is made perfect in (your) weakness.... For when (we) are weak, then (we) are strong" in You (2 Corinthians 12:9-10 NKJV). "Therefore (we can be) content (through) weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities for the sake of Christ" for You are with us and You will get us through it all, as we call on Your name and trust in Your grace, no matter what we face (Corinthians 2:10).

You see us. You hear us. You understand us. And You are here with us to help us get us through this. You'll even turn it all around for good in ways we can't even see or imagine right how. Just like You always do. You always have and You always will. So we thank You now, even before we see it come to pass (Mark 11:22-24). "This is the boldness we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have obtained the requests made of Him" (1 John 5:14-15). In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

My family,  may you come boldly before our God's throne of grace in your time of need for yourself and for your neighbors, trusting our God who has already suffered through whatever you face without sin so we could look Him and know He understands and know He will respond in His grace, in Jesus' name. Please pray the same for me. God bless you, my friends!

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Growing in Grace

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Growing in Grace

Good morning, Lord Jesus. Help me hear Your heart and let my heart be one with Yours--Father, Son, and Holy Spirit of God.  ...

"In accordance with His promise, we wait for a new heavens and a new earth, where righteousness is at home. Therefore, beloved, while you are waiting for these things, strive to be found by Him at peace, without spot or blemish; and regard the patience of our Lord as salvation.... Grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen" (2 Peter 3:13-18).

This morning I will walk out my door surrounded by your grace.  Help me keep growing in grace your today. Show me where I'm not a peace within my soul, where I'm not yet without spot or blemish, where righteousness is not yet fully at home here in my heart.

As I sit here and close my eyes, I don't have to wait very long for the answer or look very deep for some hidden secret sin. I'm aware of my struggles and so are You. And at the same time, You help me to be just as aware of Your grace and the power of Your love that never leaves me as I am but always empowers me to keep growing in grace, growing in my sanctification everyday of my spiritual journey with You, as I "pursue righteousness and a godly life" (1 Timothy 6:11).

I hear you speak Paul’s words over me, "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ has set (me) free from the law of sin and death." So in Christ I can go out my door and "walk not according to (my) flesh but according to the Spirit.... (I am) not in the flesh; (I am) in the Spirit, since the Spirit of God dwells in (me).... for if (I) live according to the flesh, (I) will die; but if by the Spirit (I) put to death the deeds of the body, (I) will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God" (Romans 8:1-14).

Your will for me and for all who are called by Your name is that we would come "to maturity, the measure of the full stature of Christ"--to Christ-like-ness (Ephesians 4:13). "For this is the will of God, (our) sanctification" (1 Thessalonians 4:3).

My family, I pray you keep growing in grace every day, growing up in spiritual maturity into Him who is our head, into he full measure of the stature of Christ, as best as you can and all by His grace at work within you, in Jesus' name! Please pray the same for me. God bless you, my friends! 

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"Your Steadfast Love in the Morning"

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"Your Steadfast Love in the Morning"

Good morning, Lord Jesus. You're one with the Father and one with the Holy Spirit; be one within me, as I abide in You and You abide in me.  

"Let me hear of Your steadfast love in the morning, for in You I put my trust. Teach me the way I should go, for to You I lift up my soul.... Teach me to do Your will, for You are my God. Let Your good Spirit lead me on a level path" (Psalm 143:8-10). 

I settle in to my place of prayer and center in with my focus on You. I lift up my heart and open up my spirit, as I greet You and welcome You into the moments of my day. "Good morning, Lord Jesus."

I could say, "Good morning, heavenly Father" or "Come, Holy Spirit" or "Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty, who was and who is and who is to come!"  But for going on eleven years now (time flies), from when I first began to journal my morning prayer, this has been my simple way to focus my heart and begin my day centered in You--embraced by my Father, centered in Christ, and filled with Your Holy Spirit.

And every morning is a good morning because Your good Spirit is with me--to love me and lead me on the level path of life in You, to teach me and tell me the ways of Your will--Father, Son, and Holy Spirit of God. You put Your thoughts in my mind and Your desires in my heart. You take me by hand and lead me by the heart on my journey of faith that begins each day in worship and prayer, in trusting surrender and faithful obedience.

In these morning moments of deep communion in prayer, You begin my daily journey of making me more like You, as I intentionally, deliberately entrust my soul again completely to You. "For the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. So all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord--who is the Spirit--make us more and more like Him as we are changed into His glorious image" (2 Corinthians 3:17-18 NLT).

If you are reading this reflection this morning I want to let you know I never intended my morning reflections to be a substitute or replacement for you personally spending time in the morning searching the Scriptures, reflecting on God’s Word, and in prayer. I put them out to remind you of the necessity of daily time in the Bible and prayer, and encourage you to begin or continue your own personal devotional time with God.  To go back and re-read the Scripture passages in the reflections God gives me and allow Him to create reflections in you.  And truthfully, if time is an issue and you have to choose between time to read my reflections and prayers, or your personal time reading the Word and in prayer, I’d rather you spent personal time in the Word and prayer, and so would God. 

My family, I pray you experience the peace, joy and transformation of the Presence of God--Father, Son, and Holy Spirit--as YOU intentionally, deliberately entrust your soul to Him every morning in God’s Word and prayer, to ground you in His truth and love throughout the moments of your day, in Jesus' name! Please pray the same for me. God bless you, my friends! 

 

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"Powerful Story of Faith"

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"Powerful Story of Faith"

“Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go into this or that town and spend a year there and do business and make a profit.” You do not know about tomorrow. What is your life like? For you are a puff of smoke that appears for a short time and then vanishes. You ought to say instead, “If the Lord is willing, then we will live and do this or that.”  (James 4:13-15)

Last night at our house church a new guest attended who goes by Maggie.  Our time together discussing God’s Word flowed out of my ODC Daily Devotion I wrote earlier that morning one being dependent on God.  During that time Maggie shared a story.  She said she is a pre-school teacher.  A couple years ago  in her class room she tripped over a toy and fell and her head hit hard on the floor.  So she went to the hospital and had a scan done on her head as a precaution.  The good news was the scan found no damage from the fall.  The bad news was that the scan showed she had a type of a large aneurism  in her brain.  The neurologist who examined her told her this.  He also said there was nothing he could do for her here and sent her to Vanderbilt Hospital.

Maggie said the neurologist at Vanderbit told her that the aneurism was extremely dangerous, and it could “blow” at anytime, and if it does, she would die in a minute.  He asked her how they found it?  She told him about her fall.  He said she was in one way lucky,  this type of aneurism is rarely discovered until after it “blows” and the person dies.   The neurologist told Maggie the surgery to remove from her  it is very dangerous.  He has done 11 of these types of surgery.  8  of the patients survived, 3 died as a result of the aneurism blowing before he could remove it.

Maggie researched the procedure and the surgeon, and  the almost certainty her aneurism will blow, and decided to do the surgery.  She told her family, prepared all the details of her funeral, got her things in order, then had the surgery.  She survived the surgery.  Afterwards the surgeon told her the surgery was a success and the aneurism was removed.  However, he some bad news.  During the surgery another smaller aneurism was discovered in her brain stem.  Any attempt to  surgically remove it would kill her so surgery is not a possibility.   He said though this aneurism is not a large as the one removed from her brain, it still has a the chance to “blow” and when it does, it will kill her.  He said this could happen in a day, a month, a year, 10 years, there was no way to tell.  But at some time it will probably happen. 

Maggie is not under any king of medical  restrictions. And she said she tries not to think about  it daily.  She just thanks God every morning she wakes up  and then tries to live each day to the fullest.  Maggie has an amazingly strong faith and love for Jesus.  She said her situation has drawn her closer to Jesus, and she prays with power.  And her prayers always included  praying over those who do not yet know Jesus.   She said when the inevitable happens, she is ready. 

 

My family, Maggie’s story reminded me that time is precious and each day is a not guaranteed but a gift  I pray this story reminds you of this as well and encourages you to pray powerfully over those you know who do not know Jesus, in Jesus’ name.  Please pray the same for me.  God bless you my friends!

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"From Independence Day To A  Life Of Dependence"

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"From Independence Day To A Life Of Dependence"

Good morning, Lord Jesus. Make me more like You today.  

“Then Jesus went out and made his way, as he customarily did, to the Mount of Olives, and the disciples followed him…He went away from them about a stoneʼs throw, knelt down, and prayed, “Father, if you are willing, take this cup away from me. Yet not my will but yours be done.” (Luke 22:39-40)

Lord, last week we celebrated our Nations Independence when we declared our independence from the tyranny of England. This morning, I want to declare my complete dependency on the reign of Jesus. In humility of heart, I want to willingly choose to be desperately dependent upon You alone Jesus. Set me free from my selfishness and self-centeredness, from my insistence upon my independence apart from Your wisdom and authority in my life. Forgive me for my pride that says I'll do it my way, instead of Your way and demands my will instead of trusting Your will. Give a heart that honestly says, "not my will, but Yours, be done" (Luke 22:42).

You are the God who "leads the humble in what is right and teaches the humble (Your) way" (Psalm 25:9). You are the God who "adorns the humble with victory" (Psalm 149:4). And it's to the humble You grant Your favor and Your blessings (Proverbs 3:34). And Your Word says, "God resists the proud, but give grace to the humble.... Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up" (James 4:6-10).

God, I admit I need a more humble heart. In you Holy Spirit, help me have the courage to boldly entrust my heart into Your hands and commit my will to Your will today as I begin my week, and every day. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

My family, I pray you may you experience the blessings and favor of God, and seek his will to be done in you life. I pray you humble your heart in His sight and allow Him to lift you up and lead your life, in Jesus' name. Please pray the same for me. God bless you, my friends!

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"Love Your Neighbor"

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"Love Your Neighbor"

“Owe nothing to anyone except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. For this, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, it is summed up in this saying, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” (Romans 13: 8-10)

This past Thursday July 4th we celebrated Independence Day and all the freedoms, opportunities, and blessings this country makes available to each one of us. One of those rights, freedoms, and choices made available to us is we have is the choice to love our neighbors. As citizens of the USA we also have the freedom and choice not to love our Neighbor. However, Jesus, as our Lord of Lord’s and King of Kings You did not give us this freedom or choice. We all, as citizens of the kingdom of heaven are not given the option but the command to love our neighbors, to love our neighbors.

Yet most of us spend more time avoiding our neighbors than loving them.  We get in the car in our garage in the morning, hit a garage door opener and pull out and head to work or whatever is on our agenda for this trip.  We drive past our neighbors.  We drive past the poor and the homeless and we pretend not to see them.  On the way back home later in the day we repeat the same drive, ignoring and avoiding our neighbors.  We push the garage door opener and pull into our garage and close the garage door behind us “successfully” avoiding our any contact with our neighbors, and never even stepping foot in our neighborhood. And if we go outside that evening it is on our back deck of our fenced back yard away from our neighbors.

We know the commandment to love our neighbor.  We know that in the final judgment Jesus will separate the sheep from the goats, those who loved their neighbors from those who did not: “Then the King will say to those on His right, ‘Come, you who are blessed of My Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world….‘Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, even the least of them, you did it to Me… “Then He will also say to those on His left, ‘Depart from Me, accursed ones, into the eternal fire which has been prepared for the devil and his angels; ‘Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to Me.” (Matthew 25:34, 40, 41, 45)  

We know this, Yet we fence in our yards, build back decks, do not host Bible studies in our homes, and structure most of our lives to avoid our neighbors.  We even call where we worship on Sunday’s “Sanctuaries” from the world.  Loving your neighbor does nor “just happen.” Loving your neighbor takes intentionality.  You have to intentionally set aside and prioritize margins of time in your day and week to love your neighbor.  Again, on July 4th we celebrate Independence Day and all the freedoms, opportunities, and blessings this country makes available to each one of us. In my post Thursday, I reflected on how each of us who were blessed to be born in the USA have “Hit the Lottery” and we need to be generous. One of greatest blessings this country has provided each one of us is with houses and apartments to live in. Each one of our homes comes equipped with front doors. Doors that can used to be generous and opened up to welcome and love our neighbors. Or doors that can be used to shut off neighbors and keep them from entering.

Let us recommit to Jesus’ command to love our neighbors! Christians hang on their walls pictures and paintings containing the words from Josua 24:15, “As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.” When in reality they use their homes to only serve themselves and are not using there homes at all to serve the Lord and to obey His command to love their neighbor.  You can commit to prayer walking your neighborhood and start a Bible study, prayer group, or other gathering in your home. Invite a different neighbor every other week over for dinner. And join in with other ministries who :love their neighbors” by volunteering at the Manna House, Downtown Rescue Mission, First Stop, House of Harvest or other ministry. “Love is the fulfillment of the law.”

Just like planning a dinner party with friends takes intentionality: setting a date, setting a time, making a guest list and inviting, and planning a menu, loving your neighbors takes the same intentionality. If you do not prioritize dates and times in your calendar, if you do not pray over your guest list and unite, it will never happen.

Take a moment to watch this short video.

My family, watching this video breaks my heart and brings tears to my eyes. I pray it touches your heart as well. I pray today in remembrance of celebrating Independence Day, in all the freedom provided to you by the country, and out of love for God and your neighbor, you intentionally pray on how and where you can add margins of time to your life to love your neighbor. In Jesus’ name. Please pray the same for me. God bless you my friends!

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"In God We Trust"

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"In God We Trust"

Good morning, Lord Jesus. I speak out Your name and listen for Your voice as I worship and wait in the communion of prayer.  ...

"First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgiving be made for everyone, for kings and all who are in high positions, so that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and dignity" (1 Timothy 2:1-2). 

I looked at a coin on my coffee table and I read the words “In God We Trust”. Like a “pocket cross” or some other prayer reminder people carry in their pockets, do you realize that the coins you carry in your pocket are a reminder of who and where your faith and trust lies?

As we move on from July 4th and the remembrance of the birth of our nation, may we not forget the motto of our nation and may it become an authentic expression of the people of our land, in humility and honor, in faithfulness and obedience before You, O God. "Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord, the people He has chosen as His own inheritance. The Lord looks from heaven; He sees all the sons of men. From the place of His dwelling He looks on all the inhabitants of the earth; He fashions their heart individually; He considers all their works. No king is saved by the multitude of an army; a mighty man is not delivered by strength. A horse is a vain hope for safety; neither shall it deliver any by its great strength. Behold, the eye of the Lord is on those who fear Him, on those who hope in His mercy, to deliver their soul from death, and to keep them alive in famine. Our soul waits for the Lord; He is our help and our shield. For our heart shall rejoice in Him, because we have trusted in His holy name. Let Your mercy, O Lord, be upon us, just as we hope in You" (Psalm 33:12-22).

And Lord, let the motto of our nation be the motto of my heart. By grace and in faith, may I trust in You and Your holy name. Forgive me for when I'm tempted to trust in myself or anything less than Your will as my destiny and Your Word as my authority. Give me a holy fear of the Lord to honor You and a holy love of the Lord to trust You. For me and for my nation, may You always be "our help and our shield," for in God we trust. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

My family, I pray that you pick up a coin and read the motto “In God We Trust.” I pray it reminds you who your faith is set in, and you trust in the Lord with all your heart, leaning not on your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowledging Him and trusting Him to direct your paths--for you and for our nation, in Jesus' name! Please pray the same of me. God bless you, my friends! 

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Is It Christian to Love Your Country?

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Is It Christian to Love Your Country?

If you have been reading my blog posts this week you know because of the 4th of July holiday I have focused my last two posts on the USA and the birth of our Country. If you read my post yesterday you know how blessed I feel to be born in America and have “hit the lottery". The picture of the flag in this post is in front of my house. So this morning, do not to take this post out of the overall context of my reflections or feelings for our country. This morning I simply reflect on another aspect of this July 4th holiday. I am starting off my blog post today with a blog from one of my favorite missionologist, Michael Frost.  My comments will follow.

“I don’t love my country.

There, I said it.

I’m a citizen of Australia, a relatively peaceful, prosperous, liberal democracy with a pleasant climate, kangaroos, beautiful beaches and an impressive opera house.

I’m grateful for the considerable benefits my citizenship brings. I’d rather be Australian than Syrian or North Korean or South Sudanese. I cheer enthusiastically for our national rugby team and politely explain to Americans how Australia and New Zealand are different countries and why being Australian is better.

But I don’t love my country.

(I don’t even really think it’s better to be an Australian than a New Zealander).

In fact, whenever I allow myself to give into those tribal inclinations to defend my country as better than any other I can’t sense the Holy Spirit behind that at all.

It’s tribalism. It’s factionalism. It’s divisiveness and superiority. It deceives me into overlooking the racism and injustice perpetrated in my country’s name and to focus on flimsy and ill-defined definitions of my national “character”.

And yet so many Christians appear to equate national loyalty with faithfulness to God.

Billy Sunday, the most celebrated and influential American evangelist during the first two decades of the 20th century, once wrote, “Christianity and Patriotism are synonymous terms, and hell and traitors are synonymous.”

It’s a trap, surely, to confuse the Christian faith with the religion of American patriotism.

Remember, the term patriotism derives from the root word, patris, meaning “fatherland”. Surely, those of us who put our faith in Christ accept that our Father is God, not our nation.

And before you go saying the Bible teaches we should be patriotic, it doesn’t!

Sure, in Romans 13 Paul calls on the church to be subject to political authority. And when writing to Titus, he explains that the Roman Empire is a strange blessing in that it keeps the peace and allows the church to flourish:  “…remind them (the believers at Crete) to be subject to rulers, to authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good deed.” (Titus 3:1)

Moreover, Paul not only commends obedience to authorities, but also that we pray for them. I Timothy 2:1-2 states,

“First of all, then, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men, for kings and all who are in authority, in order that we may lead a tranquil and quite life in all godliness and dignity.”

It could be argued that to pray for someone is to love them, but note that Paul’s motivations in Romans 13, Titus 3 and 1 Tim 2 are all somewhat self-serving. He doesn’t want Christians to become enemies of the state because it will impede the spread of the gospel.

I can’t distil from any of these passages the least inclination in Paul that the early Christians should love the empire and feel patriotic about their citizenship in it.

In fact, Paul’s injunctions to live at peace in the empire sound more like the prophet Jeremiah’s advice to the Babylonian exiles. When the Israelites were conquered by their mortal enemy and forcibly repatriated as hostage-slaves to Babylon, God encouraged them to live at peace on foreign soil:

“Build houses and settle down; plant gardens and eat what they produce. Marry and have sons and daughters …. Increase in number there; do not decrease” (Jer. 29:5-6).

But more than that, God tells them to “seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the LORD for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper” (Jer. 29:7).

Far from promoting patriotism, both Paul and Jeremiah appear to be liberating the people of God from it, telling them they can make our home anywhere. In other words, it is the duty of the people of God to seek stability, peace, and prosperity wherever they go. This includes supporting the nation in which we live, but not loving it.

Polycarp, a 2nd Century bishop, was martyred for his faith around AD156. He was aged in his mid 80s by then and much loved by all who knew him. Even the soldiers tasked with his execution wanted to offer him a way out. They told him all he had to do to avoid being burned at the stake was to light incense to the Emperor and declare, “Caesar is lord.” But Polycarp refused: “Eighty-six years I have served Christ, and he never did me any wrong. How can I blaspheme my King who saved me?”

That was awfully unpatriotic of him.

I take David Gushee’s point that because gratitude is an important Christian quality, we do well to show our thankfulness to God for the opportunity to live in free and prosperous nations (for him, the US, and me, Australia). Okay, but is that the same a loving my country?

For those of us in Christ, our citizenship is in the kingdom of God. Any nationality we adopt is only provisional. This is Paul’s view, as best I can figure it out. He drew heavily on the benefits of Roman citizenship without ever investing his identity in it.

Likewise, we can’t focus our identities around being American or Australian, British or South African, as if this means anything in the eternal scheme of things. Otherwise we fall into the idolatry of patriotism, believing that any one nation’s or people’s cause is more worthy than another’s. That kind of thing only leads to bloodshed and suffering.

I think it’s fun when on national holidays we eat provincial cuisine and watch local sports and recall our nation’s history and give thanks for the advantages our citizenship affords us. And I think it’s beautiful when the followers of Jesus can bow their heads on such days and recall they have been set free from parochialism and condescension, racism and militarism, and can thank God their citizenship is in a coming kingdom of justice, reconciliation, wholeness and peace.” (Michael Frost)

 

Here are my comments:  The first church I pastored was a small country church and the majority of the parishioners were senior citizens.  When I walked in the church I noticed they had pictures of church members and family members of the church who were veterans wearing their uniforms hanging on the wall along the back and side of the church.  They had hung them there for a Memorial Day service several years ago and were never taken down.  In the front of the church behind the prayer rail and altar to the right of the cross that hung in the center of the front wall, stood a large American flag on a pole in a brass stand.  I was appointed to the church in June and I was only there a few weeks when I led my first service during the July 4th.   I can still remember the opening hymn for that service that Sunday was “Amazing Grace.”  A powerful hymn and a popular hymn, and the congregation sat in their pews as they sung it, most from memory, looking around at their neighbors and the woman leading the singing.  Because it was the July Fourth Sunday, the next hymn they sang was “God Bless America.”   As soon as the sweet lady behind the piano began playing the melody of the song, the whole atmosphere in the church changed! I hate to say it, but to one of deep reverence and importance.   The whole congregation left their pew seats and stood up.  They placed their hands over their hearts, stopped glancing at their neighbors, their eyes focused forward on the American Flag up front, and they sang louder and with more passion to this song than they did to the great hymn of the faith before it.  And I remember thinking to myself, if somehow it was possible for someone to walk into that church who knew nothing about Christianity or the USA; maybe someone from outer space who had no idea what the cross or the American flag meant.  And they simply observed the church service and the congregation and its worship; Who or what would they perceive as the reason the church was gathered and the main focus their worship was directed towards?  It would not be the cross and what ever it stood for, but the American Flag and what it stood for.

Or if a person from another country attended that church with the veteran’s pictures on the wall and flag up front, how comfortable would they be in that service?

This troubled me.  Now being a pastor and only at that church a few weeks, I knew that If I pointed this out to them and asked for the removal of the American Flag from up front and the taking down of the pictures of the veterans from the walls, it would be suicidal to my ministry there.  So I Prayed, I Loved the congregations, and waited until I had enough ethos and a relationship with them to make a point.  When Christmas came, the ladies of the church set up a large and beautiful nativity scene in the front of the church near the altar.  One Sunday morning before the service, I took a small American flag, and I stood it up in the nativity scene right behind the manger that baby Jesus was laying in surrounded by Mary and Joseph.  As the ladies who set up the nativity scene and the congregations came in that morning, they saw the nativity scene and the flag stuck in it and they complained to me and said, “Why did you put that American flag there? Jesus was not American. The flag does not belong there.”  I said, ”Exactly!”  And motioned with my head to the flag at the front of the church.   

As I stated in the beginning of my reflection the flag hanging in the picture is in front of my house. When I look down my street, the are many houses with Americans flag hanging in front of them. This was similar to Memorial Day and other national holidays. However, I have never looked down my street, no matter what the holiday of our faith was; Easter, All Saints Day, Pentecost…etc and seen more than half the house in my neighborhood with crosses out or Christian banners hanging in front of their homes. Why are we so bold to proudly declare to everyone without reservation our patriotism and love for our country, however not our love for Jesus?

"Then God spoke all these words, saying,“I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. “You shall have no other gods before Me. You shall not make for yourself an idol, or any likeness of what is in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the water under the earth. You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God” (Exodus 20:1-5)

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"You Hit The Lottery!

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"You Hit The Lottery!

Good morning Lord Jesus, I prioritize you as I begin my days that I may prioritize serving others throughout my day.

 I am reflecting this morning on today’s celebration of July 4th and the birth of our country.  I believe that as Christians we are called to claim are citizenship as citizens of God’s kingdom and to view the whole world as our neighbors. We are to imitate Jesus and have a world view of salvation, “God so loved the World” (John 3:16). Yet though we are citizens of heaven, those of us who live in this world in the USA are truly blessed and need to be exceedingly grateful and exceedingly generous. The USA is truly an amazing country of wealth and opportunity.  We who live in America, most of the time can’t see how blessed we are to live in the USA, as illustrated by these stories of people I have encountered who have hit the lottery.

A while back I went of a mission trip for over three weeks to Southern Darfur in South Sudan, Africa.  I was part of a team that worked with the children and people ravaged by the war and genocide by the Muslims of North Sudan.   We dug five water wells to provide drinking water to those affected by the poisoning of their wells by the North.  At the completion of one well a Sudanese woman and her three small children came to the well to drink and bath.  I had brought bars of soap with me and I gave one to the woman.  She took the bar of soap and cried out in a high shrill cry that is typical of African woman, “Aiy yi yi yi yi yiy yiyi !!!!  She moved her naked children to the well and started pumping water and soaping them down, continually crying out full of joy!  To her she had just hit the lotto!  God knows if she had if ever had a whole bar of soap in her life and she treated it like gold as she washed herself and her family.

My wife Nancy and I for years were part of a group that walked “The Hill,” a, poor, high crime, high drug use area of Guntersville handing out flyers inviting the families to a free community Thanksgiving Day meal hosted by Guntersville FUMC.  Every year, as Nancy would say, my heart would be impacted by a couple families I came in contact with and I would “adopt” them.   I would bring their names to the small group I belonged to and we would buy them food, cloths and other items for them for Christmas.  One Christmas Nancy and I brought these items to a poor family I met.  The mom had a small son around kindergarten age.    I remember the boy going up to the box of food and his eyes got big as he saw a large jar of peanut butter.  He grabbed it and came up to me and Nancy and asked if he could have it, if it was really his?  We said yes.  The boy hugged the jar of peanut butter and shouted and danced anround the small living room of his HUD apartment!   To him he had hit the lotto!  Then he sat down on his barely furnished living room on the concrete floor, took the lid off the jar, and with the biggest grin and joy started eating the peanut butter out of the jar with a spoon.  I remember thinking, if I had given my young children a jar of peanut butter for Christmas they would have pouted and looked at me “like really?”  Yet to this poor boy, this jar of peanut butter was an unimaginable gift, he had hit the lottery and treated it like gold.

A couple years ago I served on a Chrysalis team that served and shared the Gospel for 4 days with a group of teenage boys.  One of the boys I got to know asked me to talk.  He told me about some family abuse and neglect he lived in.  Tears came to his eyes as he talked about his grandma that passed away that he loved.  He said she was the one that loved and was always there for him.  He told me how she lived in this huge house.  “It was like a mansion!” he said. It had a big kitchen and lots of rooms.  He and his brothers and sisters would go over there often and she would cook them grilled cheese and help them with their homework.  Then the teenage boy said they would run around and play in her large house and yard.  He pulled out his cell phone and showed me a picture of him and his grandma in front of a home.  I asked if that was his grandmother’s house behind him.  He smiled and said as he showed me the picture, “Yes! It is  a double-wide trailer with a built on front porch!” Honestly, I must confess when I think of a “huge house”, “a mansion”, a double-wide trailer with a porch does not come to my mind.  But to this boy, because of the poverty he came from, in his mind he hit the lottery when he got a grandma who lived in that double-wide that he could escape into and his memory of it was priceless, like gold to him.

Each of us who were born in the USA have hit the biggest lottery we could ever imagine for which we rarely give thanks to God; Being born I the USA.  When each of our heads came out of our mother’s womb it could have been anywhere in the world.  It could have been in the bush in a grass hut in war torn Khartoum Sudan, Africa.  A slum of half a million people in India.  In a tent behind a barbed wire fence in a Syrian refuge camp.  However, by some miraculous chance our heads came out in a hospital bed in the USA.  We did not earn it or deserve it or were entitled to it.  We simply hit the lottery.  We won an ultimate prize that billions of people in the world dream and long for, and many desperately try to gain everyday, the prize of US citizenship.  

Because of this all of us need to be more generous and none of us have a right to complain.  I was doing that the other day with my wife as talked to her about our ministry.  We raise our own support ad I was telling her how if we just had one person of all the “rich” in Madison give $50k donation we would be set for a year.  I was complaining about our financial situation.   And then God brought to my mind the stories I shared above and many others, and I shut up and repented.

If I ever feel like complaining, that I am “owed something,” or that “ I’m entitled to to something” or that “life’s not fair,” I need to go pull out my birth certificate.  Then look at the line of “Nation of Birth” that is stamped USA,  and remind myself ”USA” means Ultimate Sweepstake Award.   And then shut up, fall on my knees and thank God, and go be extremely generous.

My family, I do not know what struggles our hardships you are going through, I am not trying to make light of them, and I am praying for you. However, I pray you fall to you knees and thank God that you are going through them in America. I pray today as the greatest way to celebrate the birth of our country, you simply shut up and go out and be extremely generous today, in Jesus’ name. Please pray the same for me. God bless you my friends!

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185 million

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185 million

“For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek.” Romans 1:16

Tomorrow e will celebrate the July 4th holiday and the birth of out Country. I prayed over our country this morning. The statistic is given that there are over 185 million secular functioning people that do not know any basics of the Bible in America.  This makes America the third largest mission field in the world.   

Those 180 million people are members of your family, co-workers, classmates, fellow gym members, waitresses, and your neighbors. I watched the movie the insanity of God.  It iss a movie on persecution of Christian and the sharing of the Gospel in dangerous places in the world.  One scene of the movie looked at China.  In China, even though there is horrific persecution of Christians taking place in that country, millions of people are coming into the saving faith in Christ Jesus and the church is booming.    The interviewer there asked them why that is?   They answered their persecutors who are atheists attack those who the share the Gospel and will not share it today or any day with anyone.  So we share the gospel daily.  If we go through the day and do not share the Gospel with anyone, who’s side are we on, Jesus’ or our persecutors?  If we do not share the Gospel today, we choose to side with them.  As how is our silence in sharing the Gospel any different than there’s is? There is the sin of omission.  Failing to do what the gift of your salvation compels you to do. 

You can’t do it wrong.  You do not have to be a theological expert.  Most of those who are sharing the Gospel in China have not read much of the Bible.  Some of their underground churches have just got a copy of a book of the Bible or two passed on to them.

Read Ephesians 3:7-13; Acts 4:12

 My family, I would ask you then to take time, yes time, to write out the Gospel. Have you ever wrote out the Gospel of Jesus Christ?  Write it out to enforce and remind you of it, so you will have more clarity and comfort in sharing it.  Then pray over what you wrote, and ask the Holy Spirit to give you an unavoidable opportunity to share it today, in Jesus name. Please pray the same for me. God bless you for my friends!

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"Revelation Of A Husband"

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"Revelation Of A Husband"

“In the same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one has ever hated his own body but he feeds it and takes care of it, just as Christ also does the church, for we are members of his body. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and will be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This mystery is great - but I am actually speaking with reference to Christ and the church. Nevertheless, each one of you must also love his own wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” Ephesians (5:28-32)

This morning instead of me writing a reflection, I am sharing with you a reflection I received from a good friend of mine in an email yesterday. His marriage is trying, he does not want a divorce, and we have have been talking and praying over it. His “Revelation” as he calls it speaks into the heart of Pauls words from the passage above. I was blessed and reminded of the high calling and holiness of marriage when I read it. I asked him if I could share it with others to remind them as well, leaving his and his wife’s name out of it of course, and he agreed. Here is the email he sent me.

“Gary,

I wanted to share with you a revelation I had this morning while praying. I also want to get it down in writing while I can, but I’m fighting A LOT of distractions this morning. Almost like someone doesn’t want me to dwell on this… Now who would do that? Maybe… SATAN?!?! (You have to picture Dana Carvey doing his Church Lady skit for that one)

Anyway, I was praying this morning tell Jesus that I believe, I trust, I love, but I want a deeper relationship with Him. I want to really know Him. I want a personal, intimate relationship with Him and really feel His presence in my life like a best friend, but then I realized Best Friend doesn’t quite mean what I want. I don’t want a God that I can hang out with, drink beer, howl at the moon and tell each other lies about the girls we dated. That’s absurd!

So, I had to think about what I do want in a relationship with Jesus. It came to me that it’s a 2-way street; what I want from Him and what He wants from me. Or to state it from the other side of the same coin, what He’s willing to do for me and what I’m willing to do for Him.

I know He’s done EVERYTHING for me; the whole Bible is the story of what He’s done for me! It also tells me what He wants from me, Love and obedience out of Love and Trust, not obligation. These are very BIG concepts and make me feel very far away from a close, personal relationship with Jesus. I understand them on an intellectual basis (as far as my mind can handle) but it’s hard for me to put this into a personal perspective.

I had to pull back a bit and ask myself “What do you want in a relationship with this God who did all this for you?”. That’s an idea I can handle, even without coffee. What I want is to know Him, really know Him, deeper than a best friend or even a brother. I want Him to be on my mind all day, and to be missing Him when I wake up in the morning and can’t wait to spend time with Him and I want to feel His presence like He’s physically here with me and can give me big hug when I’ve had a bad day and can guide me and give me direction on the best days.

Keeping in mind the He is God, I also want to be in awe of Him and worship Him and learn about Him and obey Him. I want Him to be God in this relationship so I can trust Him and know He’s got this, no matter what comes up, even if what He says to do seems illogical. I want Him to be the leader in this relationship. We’re not equals, and I don’t want Him to be my equal because I’m a mess, but I still want that intimacy from a one-on-one relationship. I want to feel like I’m the only one in the world when I’m with Him and feel His love for me and love Him and respect Him and worship Him. I want to be his Bride; both as part of the Church and as an individual. I want Him to be my Bridegroom and know that He loves me and can protect me and provide for me!

And then it hit me. BAM! This is what I want in my house, in my life, and in my marriage. I’m not saying my wife should worship me and obey me even when I’m illogical. (Well, maybe a little) I'm saying I want her to know that I do love her and will protect her and provide for her. I am her Bridegroom. I love her and will do anything for her, even die for her. I want a close, personal, intimate relationship with her and really know her and miss her when we’re apart. I want her to know I’ll give her a big hug when she’s having a bad day and I can guide her on her best day because I love her. I want her to know she can trust me because I trust Jesus. I want her to feel secure knowing that I’ve been appointed as the head of the house by Jesus, just as He is the head of the Church, and if I’m following Him it’s going to be OK, even when it seems illogical. I want her to know it’s a HUGE job and I can’t do it alone but with her and Jesus we can make it. The 3 of us are in this together and if we cling to each other instead of trying to do this alone it’s going to be alright.

I realize it’s my job to do all this for her just like Jesus, my Bridegroom, does for me. I must love if I want love. I must obey if I want to be obeyed. I must respect if I want to be respected. My actions and thoughts and feelings are my responsibility and I’ve been negligent. I can’t change my wife, but I can change and show her Jesus. She desires all these things from me so that she can trust me as her Bridegroom. She wants to know that whatever happens, I’ll be there for her just like Jesus is here for us. I need to be the Bridegroom to her that Jesus is to me!!!”

Anonymous Husband

My family, I pray that all you husbands and wives, and those of you considering marriage to another, have this same revelation concerning your marriage and spouse, in Jesus name. Please pray the same for me. God bless you my friends!

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